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Why Are Abstinence Contracts Effective?
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Teenagers believe that they have absolute power
and control over their world. When they work with
you to develop a contract, they generally sign it
out of a sincere belief that they are in control
of their chemical use.
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A formal contract helps to clearly define your mutual
expectations for abstinence from illegal substances,
and outlines consequences for chemical use.
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Once the contract is initiated, any chemical use
brings your child into violation of the contract
and into conflict with their choice to use
an illegal substance.
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If they are able to refrain
from chemical use, the contract has worked.
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If they
are unable to refrain from chemical use, then the
contract works by revealing
their denial about chemical use.
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